Kate Vassar

I attended a GLBT-themed party at a science fiction convention recently. There was a woman there who was lamenting her inability to find domme women who are willing to play with her.

What she knew about me: I attended the party with a man. I said I was a bi domme and own a flogger.

What she said: "My partner is a true bisexual, someone who for her own mental health has to be involved with both a man and a woman at all times. That's rare. I wish that people who aren't like that would have the balls to admit it and not call themselves bisexual, because they're not." She also told my partner, "I think sub men are pathetic."

I'm sure that at this point you're wondering how this charming woman can possibly be unable to find play partners. I know I am. *eyeroll*

Also, I wish that people who use the words "real" or "true" in regards to sexual orientation would have the self-awareness to realize what clueless wankers they are, and how stupid they're making themselves look. Sadly, self-awareness is really rare among clueless wankers.

Anyway, I won't be playing with this woman, because clueless wankers don't turn me on. I wish her the best of luck finding a woman whose sexual orientation meets her high standards who is also turned on by clueless wankers. Keep the dream alive, sister!